What to do when it feels like the world is against you

Oh yes, there's times when it feels like everything and everyone is against you. You feel defeated, drained, exhausted, hopeless & helpless. 

I've been there. 

It can literally feel suffocating and like you're being weighed down by the world. You can't catch up on anything- your health, your sleep, your bills, even that Netflix show you started four months ago. 

Oh I hear you. 

Well I am here to talk to you about what to do when you feel like this.

First things first. I want to tell you and remind you that absolutely nothing and no one is against you. This is God and the Universe challenging you to step up to the plate to get out of your comfort zone. Everything is happening for a reason, I always believe it's for your highest good even amidst the chaotic moments. He is pushing you to do the things you've never done in order to get to where you and He want you to be. So my first question for you is are you ready?

So here's what to do when you feel the weight of the world on your shoulders...

Surrender.

Surrender it all to God. When you let go of control, you allow things to flow easily. When you let go of control, you allow God to take the steering wheel so you can rest for a moment before you get back on track. Letting go of control and surrendering it all to Him is okay. It is not a sign of weakness, because let's admit it, we can't do anything without God. Even in Mark 10:27 tells us that everything is impossible without Him. But when we have Him, nothing is impossible.

Trust the process.

Trusting that everything works out in your favor brings you one step closer in complete surrender. God closes and opens doors, He puts people in our lives and takes them out all because it is part of His Plan. If it serves God, it is for you.

You are not alone

Darling, you are NEVER alone. God and many people around you are here to support you. There are so many people out there that are going through or have gone through what you are currently dealing with. There is absolutely zero shame in your journey. I want you to come join me on this journey HERE!

You are on the winning team

With God on your side, you can never lose. Because HE is the winning team and you are on it!

Forgive

This is a big one. Forgiving those who don't support you, who can't show you the love you want, and who has done wrong against you gives you the upper hand. The enemy and all those who are against you can not disrupt your peace and happiness because when you have come to complete forgiveness, nothing cant steal your peace. 

Do the thing that scares you

If that means saying no or standing up for what you believe it, do it. You can tell the enemy NO because you have God on your side. You can stand up for what you believe in no matter the backlash because you have God on your side. If that means moving to a different state, removing toxic people from your life, and eliminating all actions and habits that do not serve you, then so be it. 

I'm here for you darling! I here cheering you on! You can do this, because I see you, I hear you, and I love you! 

Leave me a comment below which step stood out to the most! I'd love to know!

Xo,

Kailee